How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:50
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why are people of mixed race seen as more attractive than non-mixed-race people?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Which scene is considered the most difficult to watch in each of Quentin Tarantino's movies?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Why do you think Filipinos are conservatives?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why do people think Justin Bieber is worse than Joseph Stalin?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What is the craziest thing that you've ever witnessed?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Why is the US going after Canada after all? What is the reason for all this hostility?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Ask yourself:
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What is your most erotic sex story?
Procrastinates a lot.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What I need from you?
Making more friends is a goal.
In my experience, British people are fat, ugly and arrogant. Why is it and can it be changed?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).